My guy has just disappeared. He was supposed to turn up at my house on a Friday but did not show. He’s not called to say why, what happened. I have not heard from him at all. It has been 5 days now. On the Friday he was due to show I called him 3 times to find out how far away he was, he usually lets me know whether he’s 10, 20 minutes away etc. On this occassion his phone went straight to voicemail. I left it at that. The next day (a saturday) I sent one text message saying “Are you alright?” Nothing! I left it at that. On Sunday, I sent another message via skype saying “Babe are you alright? Has something bad happened with work? Anyway I’m off out for the evening.” He has since blocked/deleted me from his skype. I have made no further contact.Apart from the above, I have not called begging, pleading, crying on the phone. Nor have I called him million of times, only 3 times which was the Friday of his absence. I have not sent text, email or skype messages begging, pleading or crying for an explanation. I refuse to make anymore contact with him because quite frankly I have too much pride. I am upset that he would do something like this, just disappear when we’ve not had a fight or anything. Although I think he may have started to feel that his space was being infringed upon. I did whine a bit when disappointed by not seeing him on a particular day. We just started going out although I’ve known him for 9 months. I have cried once to myslf about this but I am making a concerted effort to keep busy. I go dancing and when I go dancing I’m not thinking about him.I don’t know whether this is relevant but I do know things have not been going well for him in his work, there’s no trust between him and his business partner. He also does not get the right support from family, nor does he trust family and quite often he says things like he has no family. I’m imagining him being quite alone at this point and I believe him MIA from me will make him miss me and rethink his actions.What I want to know is whether the no contact rule will work in this instance? The fact that I’m not chasing him down will calls, text, emails etc. He obviously expects it otherwise he would not have his phone switched off, block/delete me from skype! What would he be thinking when he discovers there are no messages waiting for him? Are men really as predictable as you say? Is it true that men don’t think far ahead and later come to realise their actions/decisions were not right one? Any further thoughts on your great how to get back with your ex article?Will I hear from him again?